I haven't recognized her since she got her hair cut a week ago. But she still says she likes it, yet isn't it a bit sudden for her to do this? I don't think short hair suits her very well, but she feels really confident. What do you think I should do about this? Am I jealous or just not used to it yet?
my ex-girlfriend suddenly cut her hair short too, it didn't suit her at all, but you get used to it over time. girls sometimes do this, they probably want a change.
Why are you saying it doesn't suit him? He loves it. Is there a problem with his self-confidence?
Did she cut it without asking you? Was there such an urgent situation that she did this?
I actually said that afterward when I didn't like it, but I said if it makes them happy, then it doesn't matter. Still felt a bit rushed to me though.
Reducing this to a matter of self-confidence is a bit absurd. People may want to shorten their hair, okay. But your discomfort isn't about 'jealousy,' I think, it's that the sudden change has shaken you. Speak clearly, and it will be resolved.
@kahvebitmeden yeah but it’s hair after all, how much can it really be magnified? I think the solution isn’t communication or anything, it’s really about getting used to it 😮💨
What kind of rapid change discussion is this? After all, she cut her hair, she didn’t get a tattoo or anything. Why are you thinking about it this much?
I think you shouldn't worry. If they loved you, the matter is settled.
I'm going to ask from this perspective again, did you used to talk about making such a change in the past? Or is it completely a surprise? 🙃
