I was preparing for a job interview and discussed my salary expectations with my girlfriend. I told her that if the company made me an offer, I would ask for this much. She laughed and said, ‘You take yourself too seriously.’ Honestly, I felt bad and being laughed at affected my mood. Am I making a mistake by keeping my salary expectations high, or is my girlfriend being unsupportive?
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8I experienced something like this too. While talking about salaries with my ex, they asked me, “Do you want even more than what you earn right now?” I was really upset. Then I thought that a lack of support and motivation in a relationship is a serious issue. I think you should talk openly with your partner; otherwise, issues like this can accumulate.
How long have you been together? I mean, is this behavior a one-time thing, or does he/she always talk like this? 
@soncaykaldi this is actually not the first time, I had felt that you were belittling something before, but I didn’t say anything.
@uykuarasi well, in the situation you’re in, the guy didn’t give direct support, it’s like they’re just mocking you here. I don’t think it’s quite the same 
Having high expectations regarding salary isn’t a mistake, but your partner’s approach to motivation is problematic. This is drifting into relationship dynamics. Honestly share your discomfort; if they don’t understand or don’t care, your decision will become clear. 
Is your problem salary or your partner’s attitude? I wish you’d opened the title accordingly, because it seems like no one is taking this joke seriously.
Adam is so unserious, I wouldn’t stay for two minutes.
The same is true on the career side: when someone pressures you emotionally, your decision doesn’t seem smart; it just feels rushed. Wait a night, then decide