My partner insists on 'safe days,' but I'm not so sure

I experienced the same thing. They said we are so safe, and then I realized my period was late. I rushed to the hospital in a sweat, it was just a delay due to stress, but at that moment, I was seriously scared. I think you shouldn't take any risks.

To be honest, I don't believe in this calendar method at all. Ovulation is variable after all; it doesn't work like clockwork every month. I think condoms or something are a lot more reliable. These kinds of calculations are extremely risky.

I think you've exaggerated a bit. After all, there is such a thing as safe days; how are you going to get pregnant if the egg isn't there? If your period is regular, there shouldn't be a problem.

I don't know which sources you learned from, but there's no guarantee of a safe day. My doctor friend says sperm can live for days, so it could be a surprise.

The effectiveness of natural methods for preventing pregnancy is around 70%. This means that one in 30 people becomes pregnant. I would recommend choosing a more reliable method, such as birth control pills or condoms.

Thanks for the comments, friends. Let me add something: I'm not the one keeping track of the calendar, it's them. So I don't know anything about calculations. That's actually the reason I want to trust them, but I'm still not sure 🫠

What kind of logic is this? Just because they're keeping the calendar, does that make it right? I don't understand why you're taking such a big risk. Would it be so bad if you consulted a doctor?

My daughter, if you were my daughter, I would give you two slaps. These things are no child's play. Safe days, calendars, all of that is just nonsense. The issue is your health; you need to go out and protect yourself like everyone else.