We have our engagement party in three weeks, the invitations have been sent out, and even gold talk has started. Last night, while having coffee, a notification popped up on his phone with his ex-girlfriend’s name and a heart emoji, and he reflexively turned his phone face down. When I pressed him about it, he said, “It’s not an old story, it was just a funny story,” but at that moment, I completely froze. For the past two days, he seems to be treating me really softly, almost as if he’s trying to smooth things over. If I bring this up to our families, it’ll create chaos; if I don’t, I’ve got a pit in my stomach. I’m really curious whether this kind of thing gets blown up or downplayed.
this is a classic excuse left over from a past relationship. my ex did the same thing, and then it turned out to be a story excuse or something. where are the story comedians not visible anyway?
I don’t think the purpose is to ask, so let me get straight to the point: what’s the deal with that heart emoji? Using an emoji in a story share is already meaningless.
@ortalikdurur said there was a joke among them like ‘they were making fun of it,’ but to me, it wasn’t funny at all.
@geceyedogru not everyone is the same, why do you always assume someone is a “fraud”? maybe it’s genuinely a reminiscence of the past in the story, but there’s no ill intent.
Watching stories may seem socially ‘innocent’, but immediately flipping the phone over is a communication red flag. Most likely, they couldn’t clearly express themselves at that moment. Try to sit down and discuss this calmly.
Let me say something: Is it three weeks until the wedding? If communication errors spread across this land in such a short time, how can a marriage be carried? Emotions aren’t clear in the hustle and bustle of wedding preparations.
the heart is not a slight detail. I couldn’t remain silent.
You say we’ve already distributed the invitations, right? Don’t complicate things for the family that much. But don’t take the engagement lightly either.