I have been seeing my flirt for two months, and everything seemed fine. But the other day I noticed that he sent a heart emoji on his ex’s story. I directly asked him about it, and he replied blaming me, saying, “You are exaggerating, we have always just been friends.” Does this seem normal to you? I’m feeling confused, and I don’t want to ruin our relationship because of this, but will I come off as controlling?
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10It’s not a heart greeting, it’s pretty weird in my opinion.
I went through the same thing. I clearly said, ‘I’m not calling you a friend or anything.’ But still, a person can’t help but doubt, you know? 
Did they say it to you, or did you see it in your ex? Clarify the source a bit; because this kind of thing is very prone to misunderstanding.
@yazipsildim, a mutual friend saw what you posted in your story and told me. But then I also checked out your ex’s profile; they are still following each other.
@aklimkaldi why do you say ‘do I look like a controller’? Is it free to say such things?
@makarnaoncesi is right, but I wonder if they were looking for something else? The topic owner seems very soft here 
Issues like this are personal preferences, but it’s important to make your partner feel that your past relationships are clearly defined. It can create confusion both emotionally and socially.
@benbisorayim you’ve talked so theoretically that there’s no feeling, no connection… the real guy is sending his heart over there, not giving a damn about boundaries.
I just say we’ll see each other and move on, honestly I can’t let things like this bother me 
If you look at your ex’s profile and see that you’re still following each other, I think you should focus more on this following than on the question from the heart. Because being in contact with an ex is already a topic in itself, overshadowing whether your heart is fluttering or not. Just speak directly and openly, let it be clear.