On my engagement day, my brother said there was a mismatch between my dress and the gold jewelry I wore. He said things like, ‘The dress has stones, having this much gold is too much… Maybe you should have worn something simpler?’ Now, while looking at the photos, I wonder, did I really overdo it? But at that moment, I could only wear the jewelry my mom gave me; I couldn’t give it up. Even on this special day, being subject to comments can be exhausting.