My friend is constantly in touch with their ex, and it’s worrying me. Is this normal for a couple that is engaged? Honestly, I don’t know why I feel so uncomfortable, but there’s something inside me.
I think this is a problem from the start.
“This happened to me too; my fiancé was constantly in contact with his ex-girlfriend, and it turned out their bond wasn’t broken. I suggest you be cautious.”
What level is this communication? Is it messaging or face-to-face meetings?
I saw that @yazipsildim has been messaging, and they also talk on the phone sometimes, but as far as I know, there’s no meeting.
@aklimkaldi it was even worse. While being engaged, they still can’t sort things out with their ex over the phone and stuff. This isn’t normal, just talk about it openly.
@hatconene you might have spoken a bit harshly. maybe the ex is wanting something from him, is it completely one-sided?
Loyalty is a cornerstone in relationships. Continuing to meet with an ex requires clarity of boundaries between individuals. If you’re not finding peace, communicate your discomfort openly to your friend. Such matters can sometimes be prone to misunderstanding.
Isn’t it strange to observe someone else’s engagement relationship so closely? Has anything happened that directly concerns you? It’s hard to make healthy comments without knowing this.
Does your friend know about this situation, have they talked about it at all? If they don’t know, the fact that a engaged man frequently communicates just because he’s an “ex” is a problem in itself. But if you haven’t shared it with your friend or they haven’t seen anything firsthand, making comments would be one-sided.