Recently, the crop top trend has taken off, but I get a lot of reactions from my surroundings because my body is bigger. Someone even said, ‘Know your size.’ But honestly, I don’t feel bad about myself in the mirror. Do you think wearing it is brave or a mistake? Or how can I style it to look better?
I’ve experienced a similar situation. My body is also big, and last summer I bought a cropped top and wore it. We were sitting somewhere, and I heard a woman say, “Not everyone should wear everything.” But that day, nothing could ruin the beauty I saw in the mirror. That’s why I understand you; wear it if you want to.
I think it’s all about the right combination. You can choose high-waisted pants or a skirt, without leaving your waist too exposed. Or there are slightly longer crop top models to start with. If you think you look good at the same time, go for it.
Let me be clear, I don’t think it’s just about looking good in the mirror. Why would people say “know your worth”? Do you think there’s no truth at all in those comments? Sometimes it’s necessary to listen to criticism. I don’t know how you’ll take it, but I’m just saying.
Criticism of plus-size women in society occurs more rapidly because aesthetic perception is trapped within a narrow framework. This is where the body positivity movement comes into play. If you love your body and feel confident in front of the mirror, you have a chance to change others’ perceptions. However, style combinations that offer a chic appearance are always a good approach.
I want to add this: The people around me are generally individuals who don’t like their own bodies, so I attribute some of this to jealousy. But still, sometimes it crosses my mind, “Do I look funny?” I think I’ll try the high-waisted suggestion.
I understand you, that ‘know yourself’ phrase really tugs at your heart, but on the other hand, you’re looking in the mirror and not feeling anything they’re saying. Going back and forth like that is exhausting. I think you should choose to believe what you see in the mirror.
The main issue now is this: why does what other people wear bother you? People are a bit too concerned with someone else’s life. Yes, society has linked aesthetics with certain patterns, but who cares? What one person finds ‘funny’ might seem perfectly stylish to another. I think wearing is not about courage, it’s about freedom.