Hello, this will be a bit of a sensitive topic, but I want to ask clearly. It’s been a few days since my first experience, but I still have a slight pain. I feel discomfort especially when sitting or standing for a long time. I asked my friend, and they said, ‘It’ll pass, don’t panic,’ but I’m starting to feel a bit worried. Do you think this is normal, or is there a possibility that something went wrong? To be honest, I’m a bit hesitant to go to the doctor; I would feel very embarrassed. What should I do?
These things can sometimes happen in initial experiences. But if the pain persists for a few days, it’s important to pay attention. I think it would be good to set aside your embarrassment and talk to a doctor.
‘It’ll pass, don’t panic,’ your friend said, but honestly, this isn’t something everyone experiences. If you’re feeling pain both while sitting and standing, I suggest we shouldn’t overlook some things.
What kind of logic is this? Is it normal to be in pain for days just because it’s your first experience? Either something went wrong, or there’s a serious issue. I think you should take this seriously.
So the main issue here is actually the intensity and duration of the pain. Sensitivity and short-term discomfort after the first experience can be normal, but pain lasting more than 2-3 days may indicate a risk of infection or trauma. If there is a special condition, consulting a gynecologist is the safest option.
I had the same situation after my first experience; there was tension in my pelvic muscles. But it completely went away in two or three days. If you’re still in pain, I think you shouldn’t ignore it.
Update: It’s not actually a severe pain, but rather a mild yet persistent discomfort. I particularly notice it when I’ve been sitting for a long time. There hasn’t been any bleeding or anything, but the pain continues like this. I’m a bit worried because of that.
There is another situation here for me. In the first experience, there might have been some pressure. Was there a lack of harmony or preparation between you and your partner, perhaps? It’s not a direct issue, but details matter.
A friend once told me, “It always happens like this in the beginning, don’t worry.” I believed it, but it turns out there’s no such thing. Your situation seems different somehow; don’t ignore it 
Everyone suddenly became an expert when the ‘doctor’ issue came up, I swear. Well, maybe this is a normal situation, why are you making such a big deal out of it?