My first night didn't go as I expected at all, I was in so much pain.

I had my first experience last night, but I can honestly say I was really disappointed. Everyone was saying it was so beautiful and all, but I was in so much pain that we literally had to stop halfway. There wasn’t even any bleeding, so I’m wondering if there’s something wrong with me or if this is normal. I might have been too tense, but I’m honestly scared to try again right now.