Lately, I’ve been questioning my relationship at home. I noticed that my husband has been secretly looking at photos of his ex-girlfriend. Honestly, seeing this made my heart sink and I feel so down. What does this mean? Why is he so fixated on his ex? Does he really love me, or is he just being nostalgic? 
“It happened to me too, I used to stalk my ex’s social media back in the day. I suggest you just ask openly and find out their intentions. But speak without getting angry.”
I don’t think this is nostalgia. No one just randomly examines photos like that. It’s a pretty strange situation.
Did you notice the nerd? How did you figure out that he was looking secretly? If I understood correctly, try to talk.
I caught @uykuarasi on the phone, it showed up on the screen. But they immediately hung up and brushed it off. It’s not the first time this has happened, actually.
@aklimkaldi then why have you been so quiet for such a long time? A person would ask, explain, or finish it that day.
I can’t defend this. I would suggest going to the therapist together. Even if it’s called nostalgia, it’s a matter of personal boundaries. Will your spouse fix this? It needs to be clarified.
I won’t continue with someone who is stuck in the past.
but this event should have been written in a bit more detail. it’s not clear who is experiencing what.
You say you caught him on the phone, but you’re also saying it’s not the first time. So, didn’t you ever talk about the situation in previous incidents? Has it always been brushed off? With this silence, he may have also “normalized” what he did.
Someone who turns off the phone and brushes things off has likely already cleared the messages or whatever they were looking at. So right now, it seems like there’s no concrete evidence, so focus on speaking clearly. But the way you didn’t push the issue in the past, it’s going to be that much harder to sort it out now.