My fiancée sent a 900-calorie meal plan, and my mom approved it

With three weeks left until the wedding, my fiancé sent me a list he found online, claiming it totals around 900-1000 calories, and seriously said, “If you lose weight now, the wedding dress will fit perfectly.” I followed it for the first two days, but today at work, I felt weak, so I bought some juice from the pharmacy to recover. However, when my mom said, “There’s not much time left, you can eat later,” I got really upset. I’m not even that overweight; it’s just that everyone pounced on me because the waist of the dress was a bit tight during the fitting. I’m not sure if I’m overreacting, but this feels like more about health now, and I don’t want to cause any drama with the wedding approaching.

What’s up with that? It’s strange that you can’t get your fiancée to listen to your mother. Why did you say okay in the first place?

Even when I did it at 1200, I really got dizzy, especially if you’re working, 900 is too ambitious. I think your fiancé is more focused on how you look in the picture than your overall health :grimacing:.

What weight are you that they’re making you hurry so much before the wedding?

@bugun_degil I weigh 59 kilos and I’m 163 cm tall. It’s not really a thing about being obese :face_exhaling:

@camkenari There’s no need to make your fiancé directly seem malicious. It’s wedding stress, a time when everyone is on edge :woman_facepalming:

900-1000 calories for a long time can lead to low blood sugar and muscle loss. Such a diet is not balanced; it should not be followed without the supervision of an endocrinologist/nutritionist. If fatigue begins, the situation I mentioned should be taken into account.

That’s very silly, don’t deprive yourselves of food.