Recently, my boss’s attitude towards me has completely changed. They used to be constantly by my side, but now they won’t even look at me. Is there a problem with me at work? Or are they seeing someone else? I’m starting to fear going to work.
I’ve experienced a similar situation; I had some issues at my workplace as well, it turns out. I recommend you talk about it.
You said you weren’t talking to him now, but did something else happen between you two? For example, could there have been a misunderstanding, or did you mean something special?
@kahvebitmeden no, nothing special happened. But we were seeing each other a lot for a while, maybe I appeared too close?
don’t analyze so much, too much closeness can lead to problems at work anyway. You should maintain your distance from the start.
In situations with changes in behavior at work, the person needs to objectively evaluate their own actions and job performance. I recommend asking directly through open communication, as uncertainty can lead to stress.
I think you should talk face to face, maybe the issue isn’t related to you but something else.
Is everything alright with me?
The topic has been explained a bit strangely; it would be good if you clarified the level of your relationship with the previous boss.
now everything has become so fragile. in the past, people used to behave more clearly with each other. it’s exhausting, really.
You used to see each other often, but then you say it completely stopped. Did you get any signals of cooling off or putting distance in between? Or did you just suddenly drift apart one day? This difference is important.
If your boss has changed this much, either frequent meetings have made the work environment seem different, or someone from outside intervened. In either case, the job may have evolved into something else. Talk about the work, be clear.
I think rather than external intervention, your action may have been misinterpreted. It’s strange to suddenly go into escape mode like this. Do you remember your last dialogues with each other? Is there a breaking point there?