When we eat out, my partner is always looking for healthy options, but sometimes there isn’t much left. They got frustrated the other night when we couldn’t find anything healthy at the restaurant we went to. I’m on a diet too, but sometimes I just want to eat something. Is this situation too exaggerated, what should I do?
I think it's a bit exaggerated. Getting mad at your partner is unreasonable. We're outside, after all, the options are limited. Expecting everything to be perfect for healthy eating isn't realistic.
You said they got angry, but what exactly did they do? Did they explode at you, or were they just talking to themselves?
@kahvebitmeden she reacted like this, 'you always find something everywhere, you shouldn't eat that much' and so on.
@aklimkaldi sorry, but this is unacceptable. No one can criticize what someone else eats. If you have something to say, say it clearly.
These kinds of things always come here, don't they? One person's diet obsession is seriously ruining it for the others. At this rate, you're going to stop going out altogether.
@camkenari that's a bit too harsh. I think these things can be resolved if both sides make some adjustments. Maybe your partner is feeling alone in the healthy living aspect.
the most important thing is this: both sides need to show understanding towards each other. Otherwise, both healthy eating and socializing can become a torment. Try to find a middle ground; you can plan meal preferences together 😂
at this pace, you'll be single one day.
