While talking with my girlfriend about protection, she looked at the calendar and said, "These are safe days, nothing will happen." But honestly, I don't feel at ease at all. I'm not sure if this method is really safe. Do you know, are we thinking about this incorrectly?
Actually, the calendar method is a natural thing, but we can't say it's safe. This is because a woman's cycle may not always be regular. Those days you're talking about can change with a deviation. The safest thing to do is to go to the doctor and discuss a reliable method of contraception. This should be done openly, without hesitation.
But I mean, I know that the days after the menstrual period are considered safe; people say that no one can get pregnant then. Isn't that right?
@mahrem_saf no, that's not it. You never know when the egg will be released, especially if there's irregularity. After all, we're not all tied to the same biological clock.
@mahrem_mantikli to be honest, I don't have a regular cycle. But my girlfriend believes in the calendar anyway. I don't know how to convince her.
What kind of logic is this? The guy seriously says "safe day" and stops taking responsibility. I think you should speak clearly and explain the seriousness of this issue.
Exactly, exactly, they said, "Nothing will happen anyway," just like a wonderful doctor explanation! What is this calendar method, is this the 1950s? There are modern contraceptive methods.
Girl, I don't know if you're too young for this, but it's no joke. If you're going to take the risk of being a mother, then go ahead, but if you don't want that, clearly warn the guy. If something happens to you, he'll just say 'I told you nothing would happen' and roam around 😂
How was his attitude while he was having this conversation? Did he listen to you, or did he try to brush off the issue with this 'safe day' talk?
@nesnelestirme_elestirmeni honestly felt a bit dismissive. I didn’t feel like I had rested seriously. That’s why I’m not at ease.
