My flirt is brushing off the issue of protection and telling me to trust the calendar. They specifically said, âNothing will happen around these days anyway,â and stubbornly argued that itâs safe. Frankly, I think itâs important to be more cautious about these things, but I couldnât express myself in front of them. Are they approaching this in an ignorant way, or is there a common but incorrect belief out there? Should I take action on this matter?
I swear it happened to my cousin. According to the calendar, they were supposedly expecting a baby in 6 months. Itâs not a sure thing, especially during stressful times, itâs not reliable at all.
What kind of logic is this? Are we bound to a calendar in 2023? This is your friendâs lack of seriousness. Things like this require responsibility.
How long have you been dating? If you brush off such an important topic like this, how do you behave with other things?
@uykuarasi Weâre not that new, itâs been over a year. But this attitude was always there, to be honest, I didnât push too hard back then.
I got really stuck on the part that says âit just wonât happen these days.â I wonder if our education system couldnât teach it, or if this misinformation is widespread? Iâm so surprised.
What you call the calendar method is actually a natural form of contraception, but itâs not 100% safe, especially if your cycle is irregular. I would recommend getting information from a doctor or another reliable source.
@benbisorayim but you can already learn through simple research, even without going to a doctor, that loops can change with stress. so if a little seriousness had been shown, they wouldnât have spoken like this.
Natural protection is like a fairy tale, you should never trust it.
youâre speaking openly, but when someone constantly brushes you off, that feeling is really exhausting. especially on such a serious topic⌠if it doesnât get resolved, it will ruin the relationship.
Relying on the calendar and acting carelessly is literally leaving it to chance. Youâve seen these attitudes in the past and said âwhatever,â but why? If this issue is bothering you now, do you think this attitude will change unless you have a fundamental talk about it?
If anyone finds the idea of contraception romantic, they should throw romance straight into the trash. Itâs not about the moon, the sun, feelings, or energy; itâs about contraception, and if necessary, the pharmacy/doctor hotline should be working.