My spouse has recently been putting their phone either in their pocket or turning it face down on the table when they come home. The other evening, I asked, âIs something going on, is there a problem?â but they said, âNo, no, I just feel comfortable that way.â It wasnât like this before; we used to read WhatsApp groups together. Now it feels like they are constantly acting evasively. Am I overthinking this? Or should I just ask directly?
Well, Iâve heard about this phone flipping thing before. They say that those who do this have another woman on their WhatsApp. I hope you donât have that situation, but it happened to quite a girl. Be careful.
@mahrem_saf this is completely false information. Some people put the phone upside down to avoid distraction. And immediately saying âthereâs another womanâ is a serious accusation. I think youâve misunderstood the situation.
I think thereâs another issue here. The phrase âno, no, Iâm fineâ is very vague. You used to read WhatsApp together, but now this seems like evasive behavior. If I were you, I would investigate, you never know what might come out of it.
@dedikoducu actually, this isnât the first time; he used to go out frequently at night on the phone, saying he was âtalking to someone from the company.â Recently, he seems to have calmed down, but then this reversal issue started.
If I look at it from a manâs perspective, let me say this: sometimes we change our behavior just so we donât have a headache. I mean, we have no intention of bringing up the topic; itâs purely for comfort. But, talking on the phone outside does attract a bit of attention, so it needs to be connected and questioned.
It seems like you asked the guy there, but you didnât follow up much; these things canât be solved easily without talking. If he even shared those WhatsApp issues, you should appreciate it. Speak openly; sacrifice is reciprocal.