We went out for dinner and were in good spirits. Then my girlfriend got a message on her phone, and I saw a woman’s name on the screen. I didn’t say anything, but she noticed my facial expression; there was an awkward silence. Honestly, I’m not a jealous person, but I don’t understand why I felt this way. Do you think I should ask her about it, or should I just let it go?
Why aren’t you asking why you’re looking upset? You could have just found out directly!
I had the same experience, a woman had messaged me but she left her job. I asked, and once she explained, I felt relieved. Maybe it’s something like that.
Who is the woman, did she give a hint? Is it normal for you to receive messages like this?
@cokdaseyapma no, they didn’t make any explanation. I was reluctant to ask.
@soncaykaldi this relief story is way too optimistic. If it’s not about work or something, what are you going to do afterward?
It’s probably a pointless work message to blow up. But if it’s bothering you, just ask away.
In situations like this, it’s important to cut them off. You can protect your personal space and express your discomfort. Communication is essential.