Does dressing according to my body mean I'm insecure?

Fashion & Style
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There are some clothes that I really like, but I can’t see myself wearing them. For example, I like how tight dresses accentuate the waist, but I back off because I have hips. My sister says, “Don’t worry, you are the fashion!” but my cousin criticized me a lot, saying “Everyone should wear things that suit their body.” Do you think dressing according to oneself is a lack of confidence or a type of respect?

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I also have hips, I really love tight dresses but at first, I always felt uncomfortable. Now I just throw on a long cardigan or blazer over it, and I’m comfortable while wearing the dress I want. I think you should try it, you don’t have to give up.

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What’s this logic? Why is dressing in a way that suits your body considered insecurity? If you choose another model for someone because tight pants don’t suit them, are you calling them ‘insecure’ now? It’s just exaggerated in everything, and that causes harm :roll_eyes:

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Actually, it’s about adapting to your body type and feeling comfortable. In the fashion world, there’s a concept called “dressing for your body type,” and it’s not about insecurity, but rather a conscious choice. It’s important to find pieces that make you feel good.

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Let me add that I don’t actually want to draw too much attention. I guess I’m a bit hesitant because I think people will look more because of my hips. But the suggestion for a cardigan or a jacket seems reasonable, thank you :sweat_smile:

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What your brother said is a bit like motivation, but in reality, things aren’t like that. Sure, you’re the fashion, but there’s no need to wear everything just to show that you’ve made peace with yourself. If you’re feeling uncomfortable, why push it? :slightly_smiling_face:

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But I think there seems to be some tension between your brother and cousin. While your brother is directly supporting you, why is your cousin being so critical? It’s possible that she has created a comfort zone for her own body and might be trying to pressure you into doing the same.

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But no one can tell you how to dress. It doesn’t matter if it’s your brother or cousin. Confidence is not allowing others to set rules about your body or preferences. You set the boundaries that make you feel comfortable.