My periods have become irregular and sometimes I experience unbearable pain. I want to see a doctor, but my mother says things like ‘You shouldn’t go out, let everyone not know.’ Should I insist on my health or should I stay quiet and wait? What do you think I should do?
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5I think your mother might have another fear; it seems like she’s just using the issue of going out in public as an excuse. For instance, she might be worried that “what if something serious comes up with my daughter.” Try having a conversation with her; she might have other concerns.
Why is your mom so sensitive about going out in public? You need to question this a bit. After all, going to the doctor is a private matter; who will know? But I mean, if this is where your mom is struggling, I would say don’t downplay her fears in this regard.
Menstrual irregularities and pains can stem from various issues, but the best way to understand the cause is to consult a gynecologist. Typically, simple blood tests or an ultrasound are requested in such cases. If your mother has concerns, you can also seek care in a private hospital where fewer people may be seen.
Let me update you: My mom doesn’t really trust doctors, she says, ‘They just prescribe medicine and move on.’ But when my pain became unbearable, I managed to convince her a bit. Thank you for your suggestions; I think I’ve decided to find a doctor and go to a private hospital.
Now you have to make a decision: health or family pressure? I think if this situation ends up unresolved, you’ll find yourself having quite an argument with your mother. Things that are postponed usually grow, so don’t procrastinate.