I really can’t take it anymore, I mean every day the same things, the same fights are over. I feel everything but I just can’t seem to confront and talk about it. There are no kids involved, but we still have a history together. Honestly, I don’t have the courage, but I’m unhappy like this too. I’m tired of crying every day; give me some advice on how to start this conversation. Show me a way.
You’ve said it’s the same arguments every day, but are these discussions always arising from the same issues? Haven’t you ever tried to find a middle ground or something?
I don’t think you should wait at all. Since there are no kids, just extend the process and directly invite them to a café in the evening, and talk openly by saying that you’re very unhappy and want a divorce. 