There is one month left until our wedding, but I feel uneasy when I see my fiancé sharing posts with his ex. Why is he doing this? Considering our relationship, this situation really bothers me. Should I deal with the question marks in my head?
I experienced a similar situation once and thought, am I dating the same guy? It’s tough to trust someone who still talks to their ex. Instead of worrying, just ask directly what’s going on.
Marriage is serious; if there’s so much fuss, it means there’s a problem. Sort it out before the wedding, otherwise, these kinds of things will be held against you later. I suggest you talk to someone from the family and map out a clear path.
When you say “message,” did it show directly to you or did he say it himself? I think the seriousness of the situation is a bit here.
I saw @soncaykaldi, a notification had been accidentally opened once. Then when I checked, it said “it’s writing trivial things” but deleted it. Still, it stuck in my mind.
@aklimkaldi, to be honest, there’s really no need for such coincidences. If someone truly closes old chapters, you wouldn’t even witness things like this. It’s clear that you’ve been suspicious already.
I think it’s really wrong to interfere with family matters before having coffee. If grown-ups can’t resolve things among themselves, it will only get worse. You mentioned marriage as a union, but don’t get too fixated on family unity.
There’s no point in having a wedding if you don’t trust each other.
it’s completely normal to feel uncomfortable, you know.
“If he says he is writing insignificant things, then he knows the content of the message; why did he feel the need to delete it? Honestly, I would be more troubled by that. Why is he making decisions on his own if everything is supposed to be transparent?”
Does him deleting the message mean we should consider the issue closed, or was there something to hide, which is why he did it? You won’t be at ease until we find this out for sure.
If deleting the message ends the matter, why is there a need to explain “insignificant things” before deleting it? If it’s really insignificant, just leave it be. I think there’s a contradiction here.