Weâve been married for 2 years, and it seems like some things have changed recently. He spends more time on his phone and doesnât share his password. He said he has something âprivate,â but we are married, so what is he talking about? Am I too jealous, or is there really something going on? Should I speak openly about it, or should I stay calm and let things unfold?
What kind of logic is this? Is there really a private space in marriage? Itâs all about trust! What if they give the password or not? If they had nothing to hide, they would share it. I think instead of escalating this, you should just straightforwardly ask, âWhy arenât you sharing it?â Youâll get a clear answer.
I read somewhere that married couples are supposed to share their phone passwords. Otherwise, itâs considered a lack of trust. So, I think itâs an unwritten rule; everyone has been doing it for years anyway. I donât understand why thereâs resistance to it.
So you say itâs a private matter, but isnât there something odd about all this secrecy? Youâve been married for two years, havenât you ever talked about it before? When did this whole hiding the password thing start? Maybe youâre running away from something else.
Honestly, whenever I come across relationship therapists, I always hear the saying, âeveryone should have their own personal space.â This is completely related to marriage dynamics. But if transparency is important to you, you need to express your expectations clearly. Otherwise, everyone will just say, âthis is my spaceâ and avoid the issue.
Thank you for the comments Iâve seen. I also want to add that I actually asked about this password issue before, but I hadnât paid much attention to it. Iâve noticed that recently, he has been spending more time on his phone. Now that itâs back on the agenda, to be honest, Iâm afraid it will cause a discussion.