Is he comparing me to his ex-girlfriend?

Today I noticed on social media that he interacted with his ex. This confused me — does he still have feelings for her? I think there are issues in our relationship. I don’t know what to do with such an open situation.

I dated someone for a while who still followed their ex’s profile. I kept coming across posts directed at the past. That relationship is exhausting, honestly, it made me feel insecure :melting_face:

So what exactly is this interaction? Is it commenting on something, liking it, or is there something happening in the story? Because it matters.

@soncaykaldi No, he shot like that. But I saw it like looking at a story, I didn’t really understand but there is interaction.

@yazipsildim this discussion keeps happening and I just don’t understand. Doesn’t a person ever leave something in their ex’s life? Should every connection be cut off all the time, come on.

Discussing whether self-obsession is a romantic thing in itself is debatable, but at a point where you feel insecure, it’s better to speak clearly. Uncertainty can stress you out. I suggest you ask openly so that such things don’t harm the relationship.

@camkenari The idea of not leaving any ties feels a bit too harsh to me. Are you going to completely erase everything? But if it’s hurting the new relationship, then it can be discussed; we shouldn’t have problems.

I think it’s a problem. Just ask.

I think the issue isn’t your ex’s profile but your reaction to her behavior. If you immediately become suspicious when she likes something, it seems there’s already a trust problem. Why do you feel the need for that? You should really think about her.