Halam has shown my wife’s social media stories to my mother, and I literally went crazy over this situation. I don’t know what I would do if it causes something to go wrong between my wife and me. What can I do to stop this?
we had a similar situation, he would still share my wife’s stories with other relatives. as we remained silent, it continued, and later we had to take a clear stand. if these things are not resolved, it creates a rift in the family.
That’s just how it is, sharing a story means everyone sees it. If you were saddened by their telling, that’s a different matter, but I don’t think this is a clear issue.
Honestly, I felt like you’re exaggerating. What happens when you show it anyway? Are you angry at your mother, or your aunt?
Does your spouse know this, then? Is it something that would bother them? That’s not clear.
@soncaykaldi My spouse is aware but is acting as if they don’t care for now. I’m mainly worried that if my mother criticizes my spouse, it will cause a conflict.
@aklimkaldi then clarify this with your spouse from the beginning. You wouldn’t even take the right to speak about their shares, let alone others.
It doesn’t seem like something to get so worked up about.
make it clear from the start, don’t get hung up on what your aunt is doing. when you’re clear, the matter ends there.
What’s the problem with the hall? It’s better to ask them directly; there’s no need to go around just because you’re carrying words to your mother. If they’re going to blow up every post like that, then we need to rethink the distance of sincerity.
Your spouse’s sharing, your family’s comment. It’s easy to ask your aunt, but the real issue is whether your mother will make these things a subject of criticism. I think the unrest that will arise from there is more complicated. Does your mother take these things to heart quickly? Otherwise, you might find yourself stuck between your spouse and your mother.