Yesterday I went to the hairdresser and decided to get my hair cut. But thanks to the hairdresser, it was cut 10 cm shorter than I wanted. When I saw it in the mirror, I was literally in shock. It felt like I was saying goodbye to the hair I had been growing for years. What should I do, how can I make up for it?
well, the same thing happened to me. I wanted it shoulder-length, but it ended up under my ears. Once you cut it short, it takes time to grow back, there’s nothing you can do about it. Either you’ll have to be patient or you’ll have to get into styling it 
I mean, didn’t you notice the length while your hair was being cut? Or couldn’t you say stop to the hairdresser when you saw how short they were cutting it?
@yazipsildim yeah, I actually noticed, but the hairstylist said, ‘it’ll be beautiful, trust me.’ And because she kept talking, I honestly couldn’t interrupt and say, ‘don’t cut it shorter.’
I don’t mean to offend, but I think the “I couldn’t say to mute” part is ridiculous. You don’t want to, the guy is cutting, how do you trust him? You should have just told him to stop once…
It’s common for hairdressers to make long or stylistic suggestions, but the customer should normally cut that off with a clear statement. Next time, it’s better to get a clear agreement before cutting. In the meantime, you might consider using regular maintenance oils or something for your hair.
You really trusted quickly, huh? 
We hear this every day, seriously, is every headline going to be ‘the hairdresser ruined my hair’? You could learn to explain a bit more in detail 
I wish you had intervened when Adam said, “trust me” by thinking to yourself, “I can’t trust him.” And the hairstylist who keeps talking might have a scattered mind. If you listen to this much, this is the result. But the real question is: why did he find shortening it by 10 cm so appealing?
He probably interpreted your silence as an “approval.” But I genuinely wonder, did you go to that hairdresser before? Or was this your first time trying it out? Because why should I trust someone who doesn’t focus on their work and keeps talking?
I have something to say, you keep complaining about talking too much but at the same time you are convinced by saying “trust me.” So either you trusted someone whose attention is scattered, or you just didn’t put weight behind your words. Which one is it?