My sister is following my fiancé’s ex-girlfriend’s social media posts, and this is bothering me. Why is she doing this? Is there something going on between them? I’m confused; what should I think?
I had a similar experience; my ex-boyfriend’s sister seemed to stalk me. I didn’t understand what they were dealing with. It was already over after that.
Did your sister tell you directly that she was following you, or did you find out by coincidence? Has she made any explanation?
@kahvebitmeden he sent me, ‘I sometimes look at that girl.’ But I don’t understand why he sent it. Do you think my fiancé knows?
@aklimkaldi oh wow, that’s really exaggerated. You should go talk openly to your fiancée. Honestly, this detail shouldn’t be kept a secret.
@hatconene yes, make sure your fiancée knows this first. Then have a talk with your brother, I mean it’s not logical.
I think this mixes two different issues a bit. The first is trust, and the second is personal space. Talk openly with your sibling; say, ‘I feel uncomfortable.’ If they’re your fiancé, past issues shouldn’t be this tangled up.
I think it’s weird. Why is your brother looking at his ex? It’s silly.
I think you should try to understand why your sibling shared this with you. Did they just want to gossip, or are they trying to warn you about something? I suggest not getting pulled into unnecessary doubts in your relationship until their intentions are clear.
Did your brother tell you this without your fiancé knowing? If so, the dynamics of their relationship are also important. Because this could mean either that your fiancé is still leaving a door open regarding his past, or that the boundaries between him and your brother are blurry. Either way, take a step based on that.
Your brother is looking at your fiancée’s ex, okay; but did you notice anything strange in the communication between your fiancée and the brother? For example, could there have been some talk about that old issue before? Or is this just a curiosity on their part? I think that’s where the difference lies.