Yesterday, I told the hairdresser to just trim the ends a little, but they literally cut it bluntly. Every time I look in the mirror, I feel like I could almost cry. What would you do in a situation like this? How can I fix it, or will I get used to it? Honestly, I’m also wondering if my boyfriend will notice, what do you think?
My daughter sometimes doesn’t understand what I mean by hairstylists or acts too boldly. If she were my daughter, I would say, “That hair will grow back, but don’t get too upset about it to the point of harming your health.” Now, just get a nice blowout, and after playing with it a bit, you’ll feel better.
So, did you show any photos before going to the hairdresser? I mean, just saying ‘cut less’ makes some people cut it however they like. Then we run into problems like this. I guess next time you’ll have to explain it in more detail.
I hate to break it to you, but going to the hairdresser and just saying “trim a bit off” without giving specifics is a bit of a gamble. Everyone perceives things differently. You say even your boyfriend might notice, but in the end, it probably doesn’t look as bad as what you said 
I think these cutting crises are usually tied to a momentary situation. It stands out because you haven’t gotten used to it in front of the mirror. But you can show the hair inside for a week and consult about styling. If you have intense complaints, you can gain confidence by straightening or using another styling method.
Actually, I brought a photo with me to the hairdresser, but like I said, the guy probably showcased his own styling skills. Now I feel like my head shape and everything is totally different. I tried something, but it still feels like there’s no benefit 