I moved in with a friend from university, and at first, I was glad because he seemed very organized, and I don’t like a messy home either. But when it comes to money, things changed. He saves the grocery receipts and makes a shared expense table at the end of the month, and even on the days he doesn’t stay at the house, he writes down some things. Most recently, his girlfriend stayed with us for three nights, and the kid took a shower and had breakfast every day, yet he still split the electricity and water bills down the middle. Honestly, I don’t want to make it a big deal, but I can’t shake off the feeling of being taken for a fool. If you were in my shoes, would you talk to him about this one by one, or would you stay quiet to keep the household calm?