My spouse is following their ex on social media, and it hurt when I found out. I wonder why they would do something like that? Could they still be involved with them? Is it normal for me to feel uncomfortable about this situation?
my ex-girlfriend had also found me on Instagram years later, but the goal wasn’t to talk or anything; she literally came to watch the memories. In my opinion, it might just be a curiosity about nostalgia.
So, did he hide this from you? Or is he openly keeping track? I think this detail is important.
@camkenari didn’t hide it, it’s out in the open, but I just noticed it. He was also watching their stories and when I mentioned it, he said, ‘I’m just looking out of curiosity.’
@makarnaoncesi things like this aren’t just ‘nostalgia.’ You’ve normalized it, but I think it’s quite concerning. Honestly, having such a connection with an ex feels weird to me.
Following an ex on social media can often stem from a serious communication gap. You might consider talking to a professional to help clarify the situation for both of you.
I care about this. It’s not like something meaningless.
This topic keeps coming up 5 times already. Can’t you figure these guys out from the start?