There was officially a small crisis regarding the gold received at our wedding. My mom says, ‘This gold is your security money, don’t keep it in a joint account with your spouse, deposit it in your own account.’ My spouse got angry when she heard this; she doesn’t want any distrust to be created between us. They left me stuck in the middle. I think they said it with good intentions, but is my mom meddling too much? What do you think would be a solution in this situation?