My date confidently said, “Today is a safe day.” But I think the opposite and I’m anxious about it. I’ve never done anything like this before. I’m trying to relax, thinking, “What could possibly go wrong?” but my heart is in my throat. Does my date really trust this, or is it just an urban legend?
if you trust that today is a safe day, then best of luck.
Yeah, women are also relying on the safe days system; that’s how people have been protected for years. It’s calculated based on the menstrual calendar anyway.
What kind of logic is this? Can you really trust a calendar for these things? This could go as far as using horoscopes for birth control.
Look, the safe days method can be very misleading, as ovulation may not always progress with regular calculations. You can ask for an emergency contraception method at the pharmacy, but I would suggest speaking with a doctor for a definite and accurate decision.
@hatconene is actually not saying this for the first time, I hadn’t thought much about it before, but this time I got uneasy. I’m not quite sure if we are relying on something right.
@kahvebitmeden no way, you are really misguiding a lot, the chance of a system like the safe day not working is very high, it’s not that simple.
@meric exactly, and he speaks so definitively like that. It’s best for you to consult a doctor first, don’t place too much trust in the logic of flirting.
Ask this flirt where he gets such confidence from. If it’s just on the level of “I heard this,” don’t take it seriously. It’s kind of strange that he speaks so confidently knowing that you’re feeling uneasy, in my opinion.
Have you trusted the safe days method and established a control mechanism? For example, do you use a test that actually detects ovulation days, or is it completely calendar-based? Because the math may hold up on paper, but proceeding without considering your body is risky.
There is still a long way to go according to the schedule, but nobody can always stick to the same routine. Stress, medication, illness… The body can get confused. If no system is 100%, relying heavily on this method is very risky. Ask your partner for assurance about this, after all, it affects both of your lives.
I don’t think you need to ask your flirt about it; do your own research. What they call a safe day is kind of like roulette… It won’t add up perfectly as long as you aren’t on the same schedule every month. Also, the word “guarantee” is already nonsense in this context; such a thing doesn’t exist.
There is generally this perception among those considering this method: “Everyone is doing it, there won’t be a problem.” But the bad part is that nobody talks about whether everyone has experienced issues or not. For example, have you had acquaintances who have successfully continued with this method for a long time? How reliable is their story?
You say that not everyone is organized, but maybe the one before the pasta is organized? Not everyone is the same after all; maybe they are really checking it, don’t just look at it as a high risk. It feels like too much pressure to me.
Even if it’s regular, the ovulation period is not always something that can be pinpointed to exact days. The body can sometimes be thrown off by even a little stress. I was curious if it’s monitored by measuring daily basal body temperature or by doing an ovulation test. Just assuming it to be regular is not enough.
Why should they even report a woman’s ovulation tracking to NASA? Friends, if we need such complex methods, it means the method is inherently unreliable. Whether it’s order or disorder, it’s all just a tale then. Wouldn’t it make more sense to find a more reliable protection option?
Maybe they’re not calculating flirting with a calendar but using another method? Did you ask this directly, or is it just being discussed based on assumptions here? Sometimes everyone has their own method, but they don’t share the details; perhaps they’re progressing with a better system.
If your flirtation is progressing with a better system, then why is there a concept of a “safe day” being discussed? The most logical thing is to say everything clearly and clarify things directly. Otherwise, you won’t get anywhere with these “maybe it is” scenarios.
Someone following a calendar, are they tracking their body signals? This part needs to be clarified. Because simply saying “I’m organized” is not enough; for instance, do they recognize symptoms like ovulation pain, changes in discharge? If they don’t care about these, then there’s no point in keeping a calendar.
What would happen if we followed body signals? Do you think it gives the same signal every time? I mean, with hormonal fluctuations and external factors, relying on these symptoms isn’t exactly a “scientific” solution. Even if you detail and embellish the calendar, the fundamental risks don’t change.