I went to the hairdresser and told them to take off just a bit from the ends, I even emphasized it because I hadnāt cut my hair in a long time, and I had gathered it with care. But the result? They cut about 10 centimeters. Iām literally experiencing a hairdresserās tragedy. Now every time I look in the mirror, I feel sad, and Iām stressed that the people around me will say something. How can I recover from this? I guess I have to walk around with this lack of confidence.
Thatās right, I always say you need to clearly explain to the hairstylist what you want. In fact, if necessary, show a flash example with a photo. But even if you say something extreme, their understanding is different. Because long hair, for them, means āunkeptā or something like that. Even if you are clear, they impose their own aesthetic judgment.
But you said something at the beginning like I warned a lot, what exactly did you say? Like, did you say ādonāt cut it any moreā or something like, ātake a little but donāt make it shorterā? Sometimes clarity is important, maybe I misunderstood 
@sorgulayan I said, ājust take the unhealthy parts but keep the length the same, donāt mess up what Iāve gatheredā. And it was at shoulder level, now itās pretty much below the earsā¦
@soran Just look, Iām going to say something. If they did this after all that talk, either they really pretended not to understand or they wanted to try a different approach with you. Sometimes they just think āthis would suit youā and do whatever they want. I think they did it on purposeā¦
@dedikoducu I partially agree with what youāre saying, but let me add this: there is a reflex in hairdressers: doesnāt it happen that to get rid of split ends, a slight straight cut is a must? It does. I think you should first go to your hairdresser, sit down, and talk openly, asking if thereās an option for a correction. But these things can also happen from small misunderstandings, so letās not jump to conclusions.